Originally Posted by Cock Kool-Aid
I feel like the basis of any relationship is trust. If you trust me, then why are you looking through my phone? I have no desire to look through her things. Also, I trusted her to not go through my personal things secretly. I'm sorry, but there are going to be conversations between me and my buddies that I consider personal that she is not meant to see. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.
If there is Actual TRUST, then there is actual confidence that she is not
going to find anything she shouldn't, or vice versa. Trust is Total Trust,
and if you're both worthy of each others trust, then there will be nothing
separate from you that would cause her not to trust you ... or vice versa.
I've been married to this lady for 20 years and we've never had an issue
in the 1,000s of times we've had to go into each other's personal
belongings or computer information. ZILCH. That's because we decided
up front there would be no "Mine and Yours" and those things are off