Originally Posted by lencho30
Done. This is just my opinion (and I am a divorced Dad), do not try and pressure her. Don't badger her or ask her a bunch of questions. I'm not sure how it works in CA but in SC you have to be seperated for a full year. If things can't be saved then try and be as civil as possible for the sake of your kids even if it means swallowing all of your pride.
Thanks for the advice. I want so badly for this to work it's hard not to try and persuade her. I have hope she really doesn't want this either but is just really hurt. My kids don't deserve this. Our lives would be better staying together. I truly believe this. I just need her to realize the same. But you're right - there's nothing I can do. Please pray for me. I can barely make it through work without crying.