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Old 01-21-2013, 01:01 AM   #41
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Well played by the Master!

I would have expected nothing less from Yancey!

That being said...The first thing you want to do is make sure that she is a real, living human being. You don't want to be Te'oed by some catfishing scheme.

Other than that, just be yourself and act with some good common sense and you should be fine.
Sometimes you might be relieved to find that the children are imaginary.
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Im 29...been with alot of women just have never been involved in a relationship...ive already stayed at her house an shes stayed at mine...her kids seeem to like me...the babies daddy is a crazy dude...so thats another concern...but idk man its a tough call...

An dammit can this plz be moved to the water cooler...lol
For a first relationship...this might be more intense, b/c there's more people involved than just you and her.

Since you already stayed at her house, I'm assuming she must be cool with it and you all have talked about it.

Since he's still around then, you might want to find out on why that didn't work for them, if you want to find a path forward with her. If he's a "crazy dude," keep it away from the kids. Make sure the girl is in the know about any beef with him and you before you try to talk to him. If you do talk to him about his "crazy," make sure you tell her before. Sometimes shit gets exaggerated and/or it's not a big a deal to her.
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Old 01-21-2013, 01:04 AM   #45
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How old is she?
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Old 01-21-2013, 01:05 AM   #46
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Im 29...been with alot of women just have never been involved in a relationship...ive already stayed at her house an shes stayed at mine...her kids seeem to like me...the babies daddy is a crazy dude...so thats another concern...but idk man its a tough call...

An dammit can this plz be moved to the water cooler...lol
"Babies' daddy"? Not ex-husband? You said she had two children. Same daddy for both, or different daddies for each?
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Old 01-21-2013, 01:10 AM   #47
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"Babies' daddy"? Not ex-husband? You said she had two children. Same daddy for both, or different daddies for each?
Yeah I hate to say it but this is the most important question that can be asked. And please don't eat those children. That's awful.
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Old 01-21-2013, 01:18 AM   #48
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I say bail out. Immediately.
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Baby back ribs?
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Old 01-21-2013, 01:24 AM   #51
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The ladies on here have far better questions.
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Old 01-21-2013, 01:57 AM   #53
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Im 29...been with alot of women just have never been involved in a relationship...ive already stayed at her house an shes stayed at mine...her kids seeem to like me...the babies daddy is a crazy dude...so thats another concern...but idk man its a tough call...

An dammit can this plz be moved to the water cooler...lol
All of these factors pretty much add up to you fighting a losing battle.
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The ladies on here have far better questions.
That's because this is basically about the woman, and we know how women think and operate.

She's looking for a baby daddy because the real baby daddy is a crazy dude and very likely a deadbeat. The best bait that she has at this point is probably contained in the information that he's already stayed at her house, and she's stayed at his.

Mantrap. Walk around it.
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That's because this is basically about the woman, and we know how women think and operate.

She's looking for a baby daddy because the real baby daddy is a crazy dude and very likely a deadbeat. The best bait that she has at this point is probably contained in the information that he's already stayed at her house, and she's stayed at his.

Mantrap. Walk around it.

It is sometimes hard to resist the bait set in the mantrap.
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my wife had one child when we met..... I felt the same way. didnt want to hurt the child or her. it's been 7 years we now have 2 children which I raise and I could'nt be happier. look at children as a bonus, in your situation you have 2 extra people to love you as opposed to one.
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Im well versed in the deadbeat dad factor also........ kids deserve better...... nuff said
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Send the kids to the Orphanage.
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